EXTRAMARITAL AFFAIR!
1. Why is extramarital affair considered a sin or a taboo?
A taboo is an imposed prohibition to an activity that is forbidden or sacred based on religious beliefs or morals. Breaking a taboo is extremely objectionable in society. The society considers marriage as a religious constitution where two people hold a monogamous relationship therefore forbidding its laws makes extramarital affairs a taboo.
Extramarital affair is having a physical and emotional relationship outside of your marriage. However, one has to understand what is an extramarital affair? It sure is not only having the physical contact with one another but is beyond that. It begins at the level of friendship, where one chooses another person purely on the basis of likeness. Where the levels of understanding are high and where the element of acceptance is highest.
Why do you think one person drifts away from one's partner?
It is because the level of acceptance from your current partner is very low and there is a constant friction in the relationship. On the other hand the new person is readily accepting you with all your faults and is not judging you at all. He or she is also looking for that vacuum created by their partner in the other person so they unite and form a bond.
Who is really at fault is the big question in extramarital affairs?
The one who cheats or the one who is a victim? The psychological studies tell that it is more the fault of the victim for not having a faith, an unbonding trust and very low acceptance of his or her partner. See, at the end of the day what all one needs is the love and understanding from the partner when one lacks in getting what one needs it finds it outside and tries to be content. The extramarital does not peak in a day; it takes months to years to build up that kind of trust. Despite, it never reaches that kind of healthy bonding as a marriage it often fizzles out and the partners are often united back but the damage done in the due course is irreplaceable.
Spirituality teaches that a strong intent on working on the marriage and getting back your partner is very dobale, as it is relatable to the law of attraction- ‘give what you want’. Therefore, thoughts of acceptance, loveful gestures and thoughts, trust, and undoubted faith can all bring back your married partner to you. What one needs to understand is giving your complete trust to the person who has left you, because that is what he wants and is hunting outside.
If interested to get more on the subject read my book “Inception of our minds”.
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